People usually look at the world's perspective, mainly divided into three types: up, side, and top.
Head-up is the most normal and comfortable eye. It comes from a calm and normal heart. It contains maturity and self-confidence. It is not humble, not rushing, and it is conducive to steady progress. It is not easy to wrestle. Looking up, it is to look at the angle of vision of people and things taller than us, the so-called high mountain. Always look up, in terms of benefits, let us know that there are days outside the sky, there are people outside, people have an example, than benchmarking, not like the frog at the bottom of the well, self-respecting; from the side effects, looking up for a long time, not only will the neck hurt, but also often Let us feel inferior, feel that we are very small, everything is not as good as people, always in a state of depression.
Looking down, "listing the mountains and small mountains" is to look at the angles of people and things that are lower than us. Some people are not as good as us, their reputation is not as good as ours, and their social status is not as good as ours. Then, when their eyes turn to them, they will inevitably have contempt, snobbery and compassion. Most of the time, we often ignore them and turn a blind eye to them, because our envious eyes have been staring at those who are more successful than us, busy with the rich, celebrities, and seeing red eyes, It’s exhausting.
From the perspective of natural laws, in general, young people like to look up, "the young minds take the cloud", in their eyes, there are not many people who can see, only those famous giants will enter their field of vision. . Like Liu Bang, when he saw Qin Shihuang, he dared to say, "The big man is like this." Xiang Yu is more cattle than him: "He can replace it." When people reach middle age, their mentality is calm, and the edge is converging. It is also easy to know that the world is not easy, and they will gradually look at it. Flatten, walk on the road without rushing, and go to your goal in an orderly manner. After entering the old state, I was weathered and read a lot of people. I saw that I was used to the autumn and the spring breeze. I was no longer obsessed with fame and fame, and I was surrounded by lumbar, and my back was bent. I was naturally unnaturally looking down on my habit. .
Of course, it varies from person to person, and some people are looking up in their lives and aiming at higher goals throughout their lives. He may live very well, very glamorous, but he must have lived very tired, very hasty, only to take care of one by one, but he has no time to browse the scenery and enjoy life. In fact, he is also very embarrassed in his life. So, when we look up very tired, let us look down and see the people who live at the bottom of the society. Although they are the same people as us, they have lower education, lower income than us, and the house is smaller than us. Work is not as good as ours, our social status is inferior to us, and we are always obscured. In front of them, we often have a sense of superiority. Usually we are disdainful and rarely look at them.
In fact, their survival wisdom and social value are not lower than ours. Their contribution and labor are not less than ours. We have no reason for pride. Moreover, often contact with them, there will be unexpected gains. If a white-collar worker struggles physically and mentally in the workplace, when you are competing in the market, when you take a breather, look down on the street cobblers, car repairers, street vendors, scavengers, you will I feel that even if you step back ten steps and hundreds of steps, it is higher than his standard of living. Why bother to go out for those things outside you?
To put it bluntly, when an official is worried about a poor career and no upper floors, he may wish to look down on the days of the people, sit at their homes, listen to what difficulties they have, what are their expectations; The boss who is still anxious but still anxious to make more money can also condescend to the staff of his staff to sit and see what they are thinking, why bother; a brainstorming for the development of the combat plan Generals, you may wish to sneak in, go to the soldiers' big accounts, listen to their thoughts and suggestions, and you will definitely be worthwhile. Often looking down, it may make us change our minds, and it may also soothe our impetuous mind, which will cool our passionate desires and become a normal person, not a money-making machine, a workplace. Madman, a gangster.
Often look down, it is rest and relaxation, it is charging and decompression, it is a wise move.
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